The Exiles December Program: Carnal Carnival + AFTER PARTY!

A Kinky Sampler!

Cost: Carnal Carnival: Members: $5, Nonmembers: $10. After Party: Members: $15 • Non-members: Add $20 if you come to the program before 10pm • Non-members: $30 after 10pm (Open to women and those who identify other than male. 18+)

Dress code: Street wear acceptable, fetish/dungeon wear encouraged!

Remember those hot summer nights at the county fair, holding hands while you ride on the Ferris wheel?

Instead, we have a hot winter night of kink, fun, music, and debauchery. Join us for great booths, food, kinksters, and much merriment. Enjoy the ever-popular Vibrator races, Big Bertha Bean Bag toss, and other perverted games. Experience play piercing, impact play, or flogging. And that’s just a taste of what we’ll have waiting for you at this year’s festivities!

Your regular program admission gets you a raffle ticket (for Lots of Cool Stuff), and Exiles Bucks to spend at the carnival booths – and you can buy additional Bucks and raffle tickets for more fun too! Some booth prizes include extra raffle tickets as well. There will also be light snacks provided.

What will it cost? Just like with our regular programs, admission is $5 for members and $10 non-members. For the Carnal Carnival, that includes 10 Exiles Bucks and 1 raffle ticket. When you need more Exiles Bucks for the booths, you can buy them for $1 each, $5 for 6, or $10 for 13.

Then stay and PLAY at the AFTER-PARTY!

• Members: $15
• Non-members: Add $20 if you come to the program before 10pm
• Non-members: $30 after 10pm

DONATION SPECIAL: We are partnering with “A Drive Name Sailor”: if you bring a blanket for the Charlotte Maxwell Clinic you get $5 off admission to the party!
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Note: We have been informed that the ramp, which makes Catalyst accessible for those who can’t use the stairs, will not be available for the foreseeable future. We are committed to accessibility for all of our events, so we are actively looking for an alternative venue. Please contact us if you have any ideas. In the meantime, we sincerely apologize for this.

ASL interpretation available on request. Please contact the co-coordinators at cocos (at) theexiles (dot) org at least a week in advance if you need an ASL interpreter, and one will be provided.

The program runs from 8:00 to about 10:15pm. with socializing at 7:30. The After Party starts immediately following the Carnal Carnival.


We are looking for awesome volunteers to help with set up, clean up, stage kittens, raffle hunnies, and doorkeepers! Please email [email protected] if you would like to volunteer for this event!

About Us:

The Exiles are a 501(c)3 non-profit educational group for ALL women (trans & cis), butches and femmes alike, NB+GQ/fluid folx (who feel their space is in the leatherwomen/leatherdyke community) who are 18 years of age and older who have a positive personal interest in BDSM. The group provides educational events where folks with all levels of experience will have a safe place to meet, explore and share information about safety, play techniques and resources, and connect with the leather community locally and nationally.

What we offer!:
Monthly educational programs - 3rd Friday of the month
Monthly munch - 1st Wednesday of the month
Monthly Biz meetings - 1st Sunday of the month
Quarterly play parties!
Prime cruising!
Leather Alley, Dore Alley, Folsom admission and shenanigans!
And so much more!

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