The Exiles: In the Beginning-First Steps in M/s

Are you in the early stages of your Master/slave relationship, or interested in establishing one? This class will help you decide if M/s for you, and give you some guidelines about how to begin. We’ll discuss myths & stereotypes of M/s, how you get started; both parties’ wants and needs; contracts, collars, and protocols; rule enforcement and correction; maintaining and supporting the dynamic; and where you go from here. Please share your experiences as we share ours. Annotated reading list supplied.

Program Meeting Info:

Members $5; non-members $10. Please have membership card or ID ready to speed entry.

ASL interpretation available on request. Please contact the co-coordinators at cocos (at) theexiles (dot) org at least a week in advance if you need an ASL interpreter, and one will be provided.

The program runs from 8:00pm to about 10:15pm. with socializing at 7:30pm.

The Exiles is an inclusive and sex positive space for ALL women (trans & cis), butches and femmes alike, NB+GQ/fluid folx (who feel their space is in the leatherwomen/leatherdyke community) who are over 18 years of age who have a positive personal interest in BDSM, regardless of level of experience. For all such people, this group is for you. Racism, transphobia, homophobia, classism, ageism, ableism, size discrimination, and other forms of discrimination have no place here.


Friday February 15, 2019 at 07:30PM


Friday February 15, 2019 at 10:15PM