UNITY! Come Together

A Play Party for the Community by The Community

Cost: $25 Presale at https://www.eventbrite.com/e/unity-tickets-75576863433, or at door if space available.

Dress code: Fetish, basic dungeon blacks, lingerie. No street clothes

This party begins at 8:00 pm. If you are new to play parties, there will be an optional introduction and orientation that begins at 7:00.

There is no community without UNITY!
Supported by an array of community organizations including Catalyst SF, Wicked Grounds, Dark Odyssey, Stampede, Society of Janus, and The Leather Alliance, this party reinforces our commonalities while celebrating our differences. (Other groups who wish to participate, please contact us so we can add you to the listing).

We can accomplish a lot together, including having a night full of kinky fun for the community, by the community. Catalyst SF, a beautifully appointed space with unique features, will be the backdrop to your night, Custom soundtracks will help set the mood, and fun ice-breakers will be available to help folks make new connections. Bring your creativity, your energy, and your awesome self. We all bring our own unique energy to the community to make it the vibrant and fun place it is. This party is a perfect way to celebrate together at a comfortable play space. See old friends, meet new people, and play the night away.

Representatives from all the groups will be on hand to provide information about what they do and host in the community and answer questions. Wicked Grounds will have some of their wonderful toys for sale as well.

Your hosts for the evening are Frey (Kinky Prom, Vivid, SF Munch) and Diablo (Spank, Blush).

Advance Tickets / Presale
☞ This party will be popular and may sell out. To make sure you get your ticket, you can pre-purchase your ticket at Eventbrite. ☜

Demos and More
In addition to kinky play and opportunities to socialize be sure to check out our awesome presentation by Uncle Randy who will be providing a fireplay demo at the beginning of the night. Don't miss this rare chance to learn from an experienced fire-player sharing his years of experience and knowledge.

House Tops
Be sure to visit with our wonderful house tops who will help make sure everyone has a chance to play!

  • Mistress Madeleine will offer impact play. Come and experience her wide-ranging skills with many types of toys, from the sensual to the intense.
  • Rodeo Kitten will also be playing with impact too. From light to thuddy to stingy she can deliver it all
  • The Purple Anon will be flogging the night away and if you ask nicely, she might tie you up too. All of our presenters and house tops are experienced and well-established in our community. There will be a lot of fun to go around so come on down and celebrate with us!

New to Play Parties?
If you are new to play parties or the community, there will be a free Introduction and Orientation host by Society of Janus ahead of the party starting at 7:00pm to help you feel comfortable and know what to expect and how to act when you attend play parties and other community events.

This party is for adults of all gender identities, sexual orientations, ethnicities, roles, and experience levels. This is a body-positive event. We expect all attendees to honor the diversity of our community, and will not tolerate behavior and language to the contrary at Unity.

Volunteer for Free Entry
The volunteer and potluck thread will be posted about 2-3 weeks before the event.

Consent is Paramount
Part of our responsibility in fostering a consent culture is provide guidance to help prevent consent incidents from happening at our events. Any consent concerns can be given to the hosts at the party or here on Fetlife, with a promise of confidentiality if desired.

  1. Informed and voluntary consent is always required before play. The entire scope of any scene, including what parts of the body there may be contact with and the nature of such contact, should be negotiated prior to beginning any actual play.
  2. People at our events come from different backgrounds and have vastly different life experiences. All attendees may expect to be treated by event staff and other attendees with respect irrespective of age, ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender identity, body type, disability, etc.
  3. People can expect that their persons and property shall not be touched without prior permission.
  4. Attendees should not be addressed as “Mistress”, “Sir”, “slut”, “slave”, etc. or any potentially offensive terms or violating words unless they have given prior permission.
  5. Each participant in a scene is responsible for making sure that everyone involved in the scene has the mental and emotional ability to give informed and voluntary consent for the scene. We consider people who are under the influence of substances, in subspace or otherwise not in a clear state of mind to be incapable of giving informed and voluntary consent.
  6. While playing, players may not do anything that was not already explicitly agreed to.
  7. Any participant in a scene has the right to withdraw consent at any time by means of an agreed-upon safeword, a non-verbal safesign or using the house safeword “SAFEWORD”. Once consent is withdrawn, all activity in the scene must stop.


Saturday January 11, 2020 at 08:00PM


Sunday January 12, 2020 at 01:00AM